I don't understand why sometimes, what we see on the outside does not always represent the inside. Have you ever encounter a situation where; in front of you, a person or a group of people seems to be OK with you, when they are with you they don't complain much, they just go with whatever you say and responded positively at the end of the conversation. At times, you thought they really felt what you were feeling, complete with a package of emotions, expressions and gestures and words that indicated their understanding of what you were actually saying at that particular time. In short, they shared your emotions, your opinions and your suggestions. Then, as you turn your back on them and started to look away for a bit, they pulled a dagger and stab! stab! STAB! STAB! STAB! you from behind. When at first, they agree with what you suggested followed by their positive remarks, as you turn, they form a troupe of army and started to aim a missile from afar. If you ask me; whether I can handle straight-forward people commenting on my negative attributes or not; I would say YES IF THE WAY IS RIGHT, WITH RESPECT AS AN INDIVIDUAL.. WHY THE HELL MUST YOU LOOK FOR FAULTS WHEN YOU CAN HELP SOMEONE FIX IT AND WHEN YOU COMPILED A MOUNTAIN OF FAULTS THEN ONLY YOU SEND HUNDREDS OF JET PLANE TO BOMBARD IT DOWN OR POUR GASOLINE ALL OVER IT AND SET IT ON FIRE? and laugh while looking at it.
HOW, how, how on earth can we make a change if people don't be honest to each other? How would we know of the things that is not right to them if they don't tell us, in front of us and nicely?
I guess we all don't like to be to straight-forward to each other, sometimes. But I say this to all of us and also to myself that even if we don't want to tell it to the face, don't let it lead to back stabs and so on. Hypocrisy is in everyone, it is just a matter of what level of hypocrisy you're in which must be redeemed by oneself rite?
When we, you and me, try to stay honest, it is possible that we will avoid unpleasant talks, and sour faces, hatred and bad intentions of hurting and pushing other people down, this might not happen directly, but gradually in time. It's like a time bomb, ticking to explosions..
Lastly, I would just want to clarify, saying all this DOES NOT MEAN THAT I AM PERFECT, AND THAT I'M SO TRUE THAT I WILL BE PROCLAIMED AS A SAINT.. NO...but as an advise to me, myself and I and to the hearts that wants to listen and reflect....
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